He's 6 months and this has been happening his whole life. I have another DC too (3yo), and a work from home job.
My DH and my dparents just will not give me a break from having him constantly attached to me. Like all babies he cries for many reasons: frustration, over-tiredness, discomfort, boredom. Sometimes he just likes being walked around being held by someone. But I seem to have a family (and various friends) who think every little squeak he makes means he's hungry and pass him back to me for BF. They don't think to play with him, give him something to hold, carry him around or talk to him.
Is it me or do people do this when you BF? My DH certainly uses my EBF as an excuse to do absolutely nothing for DS (he is better with DD.) he has never even changed DS' nappy. now I have started to wean it has become more noticeable as my parents and DH are still telling me to BF when DS cries. They are saying they would help if they could, but all he wants is me. That is just not true.
I am so tired so maybe this is not coming out correctly or sounds uncharitable of me. Can anyone relate?
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To be annoyed that nobody will hold my EBF baby just got a few minutes before telling me he is hungry and handing him back?
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shakerattleandrollerblade · 21/02/2017 11:45
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