Had an "altercation" at the train station this morning and neither of us exactly covered ourselves in glory.
So what happened was I was walking along the platform when this woman walked right in front of me. She literally stepped directly in front of me and carried on walking. We were both walking in the same direction and there was plenty of room for her to have walked to either side of me. It wasn't busy.
Anyway it caused me to slightly step on the back of her shoe. Because she literally walked underfoot of me. I had no chance to alter my stride in time because she was so close. Whilst I know it's annoying when people step on the back of your shoe it's not like I almost took it off or even caused her to stumble. In fact if I had been walking faster she would probably have tripped me or trod on my toes!
She spun round, glared at me and then whipped out her headphones to shout at me to "Say sorry!". I had sort of anticipated that she might apologise for cutting in front of me, and then I would have apologised for stepping on her shoe. Instead she was aggressive. I wasn't having a good morning so rather than meekly apologising like she wanted I told her that it was her own fault for cutting in front of me and that she should actually apologise to me, and try looking where she was going!
Rather embarrassingly looking back we ended up shouting at each other. I wouldn't usually react that way but she seemed to be trying to intimidate me and that enraged me. I mean normally if someone stepped on your shoe and didn't apologise you'd roll your eyes and move on? Not stop and start shouting at them to apologise? And then follow them down the platform carrying on an argument about it?? Especially when it was entirely caused by your own carelessness?
At the end she shouted that she didn't see me because she has epilepsy?!?! I'm not really sure if the connection if there is one. But again surely if you have a condition that causes you to not see people and therefore step right into their path then you have some awareness of it and when it happens you don't start shouting at them?
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Northcountrygirl16 · 20/02/2017 22:29
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