I take my dc to a group every week (19 mnth old) - music, dance group.
Its a lovely group that does rhymes and songs and for each song every child is given a corresponding toy to play with. No need whatsoever to bring your own.
There is one child who attends with his mum, he looks around 4 so should be starting school in september. His mum allows him to bring his own toys every week but he also takes the ones given out for each song. If any other child touches his toys he goes batshit crazy.
Obviously some of the other children including my dc are interested in some of the toys he brings and they are far too young to understand that those particular toys arent for touching/playing with.
The lad who they belong to always makes a beeline for my dc who is half his size and puts his hand out to offer his toy to my dc...who smiles all excited and reaches out, only for the boy to snatch it back and laugh....every time! Its infuriating.
The mum then praises her son for sharing, whilst my dc is close to tears! Ive tried keeping dc away from him but this lad seeks him out. Ive tried saying 'thats not nice' when he snatches the toys back and keeping my dc distracted but the mother seems to ignore it.
It happened again today, this time my dc cried. when she praised her son for 'sharing' i corrected her and said ' he is actually teasing my dc and thats not nice behaviour. Can you not encourage him to do that please as he is upsetting my dc'
She went red and said he was sharing and that she didnt see a problem. I stayed calm and said that offering a toy to a much younger child, snatching it away when they reached out to touch it and then laughing at them and making them cry is not sharing, but is actually rather mean.
Aibu to be annoyed with this woman. She will be there next week and i will find it hard not to lamp her one get annoyed when her ds does it again!
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Areasonablegal · 20/02/2017 13:24
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