I have 3 sons with my ex, ages 4 and twin boys aged 3. Ex has stages of coming into the kids lives and then will go out again for a number of months when he has a new girlfriend. Ds1 dotes on him and will never let me say a bad word about him but the months ex is away he is constantly crying and asking me why daddy isn't here. Everytime the door or phone goes he gets excited because he thinks it's his dad and it's horrible seeing him like that. I'm fed up of how much he messes both me and the kids around. He will constantly cancel when we have plans and make me look like the bad one because I have to tell kids he can't make it. About two months ago I told ex that I was fed up and he said he'd shape up and it was going good for about 3 weeks, he had the kids over on weekends and once one week when I couldn't take them to school. I had a call from nursery to say they hadn't been supplied with nappies and the kids didn't have any packed lunch. I'd told him multiple times that they needed a packed lunch and even gave him their lunch boxes with a note of what to put in there. I called at 11 on one weekend to make sure the kids were in bed and I could hear them all still playing in the background. My son also gets really ill when he comes home and I know it's because he only eats junk when he's there. I'm sort of just ranting but I'm not sure if this is a typical dad thing and iabu or this is something to worry about?.
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