Hi everyone, this is my first ever post. Bit scared being the newbie but I'll jump right in...
AIBU to expect more from my DH? I'm a SAHM to 16 month DD and I'm setting up my own business. DH works full time.
I do everything around the house - cleaning, laundry, put bins out etc, food shopping, planning meals, planning all our weekends, remembering all his families birthdays & anniversaries & sorting the respective cards and gifts. I do some cooking and life admin too but generally DH cooks our dinner whilst I'm breastfeeding DD to sleep (usually for 1.5 hours!!) and he also sorts stuff like insurance, our finances generally, paying bills etc.
I feel like I do all the childcare, even at weekends. I get up with DD, change nappy, get dressed, we have breakfast together whilst DH stays in bed asleep or checking work emails from bed. He works from home mainly but never gets up with us. I feel like he should be more involved as not many Dads get that sort of opportunity to spend time with their kids. He helps with bathtime but refuses to do it on his own.
Occasionally on a weekend he'll take DD out for an hour or so, but the rest of the time I look after her. I don't have family near by so no one to call on for help and his family, although closer distance wise, aren't very forthcoming with help either.
Is this a fair arrangement? I have friends who get a lot more help from their partners and others who don't.
Some days I just wish someone else would pack the changing bag, feed DD her meals, change her nappy etc. This does happen on occasion but usually after persistent reminders and requests to the point where I just think I may as well be on my own!
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LavenderShortbread · 19/02/2017 23:10
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