PIL died several years ago now.
DH is one of the 3 sons. 1 lives in Hong Kong (for decades), 1 lives in home town and DH lives 5/6 hours drive from home town (with me!)
DH hero worshipped his parents - there was no real basis for this. MIL was hardly even interested in any of her children and particularly thought DHs purpose in life was to run around after her especially after FIL died but wasn't even interested him, other children or GC.
When they died neither of his brothers wanted anything from them (1 abroad, 1 hated his parents). Because they didn't want anything DH decided he should take EVERYTHING from their house.
There were many rows at the time when he was even trying to take furniture and white goods (which wouldn't fit in our house). Instead he took everything else he could transport. I managed to get rid of some when it arrived (lots of broken things).
So he bought a second shed to store it all in and to see if outside storage would get rid of the smell..... because it all STINKS.
They were heavy smokers, fried food and never ever opened windows.
He is now trying to move this stuff into the house - it's smells and it's all rubbish.
We had an hours 'discussion' over a pile of books this morning - which I gave to MIL because I didn't want them! I'm hoping the broken Hoover is also going today.
The thinks everything is important and needs to be kept. The saddest bit is there were some good things he left.
Today I feel like having a bonfire....
I think I am mostly having a moan - he complains we have too much stuff but it doesn't include this apparently!
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FrenchCat · 18/02/2017 10:41
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