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TheFullMrexit ·
17/02/2017 12:01
A few yes. Some if I saw in street I would happily have a quick catch up, only one or two I would duck away from 
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One is a very good friend.
SnoozyCunt ·
17/02/2017 12:03
My first long-term boyfriend I haven't really spoken to or seen in the 12 years since we broke up. I saw him once in the street and smiled and did the eye brow raise but walked on. I was looking totally hot. Then a few years ago he emailed me but basically wanted to boast about how amazingly well he was doing in life (he wasn't really). I didn't reply.
A bloke I had a fling with emailed me a few years ago after he claimed I'd "popped up" on his LinkedIn pages 
I think it was a bit of a booty call. I didn't reply.
Another bloke I had a fling with I've now found myself kind of working with. He's not a colleague but works at an agency that I have occasional contact and meetings with. It was really awkward at first but it's basically fine. He thinks I'm still as easy as I was at 20 and I get the feeling he's always angling for an affair but I'm totally not interested.
I've had many one night stands. I might well be in touch with some of them but most likely not. TBH, I can only remember about 10% of them. There were a lot.
RockyBird ·
17/02/2017 12:09
I bumped into one of my first long term boyfriends a few weeks ago. We had a chat and he asked my surname so he could stalk friend me on FB. I said no. In any case he's been blocked for years
My last boyfriend before DH treated me so badly that I have no reason to even be remotely civil to him.
HecateAntaia ·
17/02/2017 12:19
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Aoibhe ·
17/02/2017 12:34
I stayed in contact with my ex who I was with just before dh. We had been great friends, same sense of humour, same interests, no bad feelings, worked in the same industry, so I thought it was great that we could be friends and keep in touch, only by text or email, we never met up as I had moved away. I told dh about it and he was fine about it.
He got married, had 2 DC and started moaning to me about his wife 
that she had put on too much weight, was a nag, was worried about her newborn and refused to leave it with his mum. I was speechless. This went on for a few months. I genuinely don't know what he wanted me to say I basically just stopped replying to his messages until they fizzled out, bar odd one at Christmas or a birthday.
I have another ex who I stayed in touch with until he began a LTR and she wasn't happy about it. That was fine, I respected that.
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KurriKurri ·
17/02/2017 12:44
I have very little contact with my XH - he treated me very badly. But we are civil if we do speak and he is the DC's father so I try to keep it all civil for them. If he absolutely needed me I would help him out (I have taken him to a and e when he was unwell and visited him in hospital, taken him in clean clothes toiletries etc.) we were together 32 years so it is hard to break the habits of a life time !
But we don't meet up socially. I did go for a coffee with him a few months ago when we met by chance, but he sat for an hour and talked about himself the entire time, never once asked how I was or what I was doing. And I just thought 'I'm not doing this again, what's the point ?'
I don't actually like him, although I do have feelings if that makes sense - it;s hard to cut off all feelings for someone when you were together so long, even if they were a complete shit
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