Backstory;
Met in school, have a mutual friend who also met in school and we've been 'best friends' for at least 10 years. Use to have a really good relationship but grown apart over the years.
This friend is also friends with my OH, or as she likes to call it, they're 'family'. They've known each other for the same amount of time I've known my OH as we all used to work together.
This friend reguarly does drugs (cocaine and mdma) and my OH is an ex-cocaine addict.
Whenever I see her (not often) she constantly talks about herself and her life and how many people she's had sex with recently, never about me or how I am etc.
She recently found out that me and my OH are trying to concieve and she was extremely judgemental and said it's a bad idea and wouldn't work out between me and my OH.
I was raped before me and my OH got together and she told him whilst we were dating which was something I didn't want to share with him yet (i did when we were in a relationship and felt comfortable only to find out he already knew). She claims she did this out of my own good and to protect me??
I went away with her and the mutual friend for the mutual friends birthday last weekend, and she kept making comments about drugs and then saying 'oh it's just a joke before you say anything'. She did this a few times. She also went in on one about how i'd been checking up on my OH all day (we'd been on the phone briefly twice cause problems with his bank) and how I'm obsessed with having a baby.
I think to myself that if I'd met her now would we be friends? And i think the answers probably no.
So, AIBU to cut a friendship when we've been friends for so long?🤔
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AIBU to cut friendship of 10+ years?
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Hannahbanana1725 · 17/02/2017 09:19
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