So I've two dc. An 8 year old boy and a 20 month old boy. Both love each other and play together nicely sometimes.
Ds2 does sometimes hit. This behaviour is new to me because I was lucky that ds1 was never a hitter. Of course I tell him no, he does it to me, dh and ds1. I tend to say no and turn my back to him/put him down if he does it
However, ds1 is forever teasing the baby. Getting right up in his face, blocking his way if he's running around, grabbing him, so the baby lashes out.
I tell ds1 to stop teasing his brother, stop getting in his face etc.
Trouble is at times ds1 will annoy the baby, so the baby comes crying to me for a cuddle, ds1 then tries to join in the cuddle and the baby hits out. I'm thinking which one do I tell off.
Am I wrong to expect more of ds1?
Any advice on how to deal with it?
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Aibu to blame ds for it?
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Laralion · 16/02/2017 18:00
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