Wondered if it's OK to ask this here!
I've an autoimmune disease, a rare form of arthritis. Life can be horrifically painful for days and weeks on end and then I'll have a spell where I'm ok, such is the nature of the condition. When I'm bad, I'll find it hard to do my job properly, no power in hands, find getting up and down the stairs hard (do it by bum shuffling) can't raise my arm above my head/move shoulder etc. Many other areas of immobility too.
Anyway the medication the rheumatologist has prescribed sadly didn't work, so he wants me to trial methotrexate, am very scared of this drug and the associated side effects.
Anyway my AIBU is, should I delay taking the medication to have one last shot at TTC?
Cons are
- would delay the time when my disease might start to get under control if I have to delay medication
- have one boy and one girl already
- can afford the children we have
-husband is not keen on more
-I'm 38 dh is 42
Pros are
-I'm so so broody
-can't bear the thought of no more babies
-am terrified of the potential side effects of methotrexate
-I'm so broody!!
-I'm so broody!!!
What would you do in this situation? You absolutely cannot take the medication and get pregnant it's very much either or.
Children are 2 and 4!