Where to start? Hubby and I got together as a long distance relationship but after long discussion it was decided that he would move the 4 hour journey to where I lived with my DD - this was 5 years ago.
We now have a child together and another on the way, plus he has a son with SN back where he is from. He travels every couple of weeks to see him alone, then we all visit during school holidays.
Hubby now wants to move back as he hates the travelling plus hates being away from the family when he goes. DD is in a very good school here and our DS is due to start school in September. All my friends are here, and my mum (a widower) who the children are very close to.
On top of this, I had severe PND after DS was born, so I'm naturally worried that this could happen again (still on medication due to this).
As much as I understand his motivations for wanting to relocate (so we can all be together all the time and the children all get to spend time together more frequently), I can't help but be reluctant to move. We almost moved last year but daughter became ill and plans were put on hold.
Since then I've realised I really don't want to uproot the children and move somewhere I will have no support and feel isolated, and away from everything and everyone they know.
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mummylulu · 15/02/2017 17:56
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