DS1 is 20 and hasn't worked for 18 months - left last job due to stress and depression. He's now much better mentally but seems to have developed a very entitled attutude - wants/expects me to buy him a new laptop, phone etc. When he was working he bought all his own things but now he just seems to expect me to fund everything while he does not much.
He doesn't claim benefits as finds the whole signing on thing stress inducing although he would probably be okay now. Has applied for a few jobs but really needs to apply for loads to be in with a chance.
He lives with me and DD and thinks I am BU not to buy him gadgets because apparently he needs them. He is an intelligent young man but his thinking on this subject is not reasonable/acceptable. His F is not around.
AIBU to ask for advice on how to talk with him about this as I don't l know how to talk to without being negative and annoyed.
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DS wants me to buy him expensive gadgets
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MoragWilson · 12/02/2017 19:36
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