Is this embarrassing

[Intonational]

At work there are general male and female toilets and also a disabled toilet people go into for more privacy. Went into disabled one and was just standing in front of mirror to do my makeup when company boss walked in on me and looked embarrassed. He could see I was standing up facing mirror and fully dressed though. I just said it was fine and he went away. What should I have said? Do I look like a weirdo now?!

[gamerchick]

No, it happens. Don't give it another thought.

Maybe lock the door next time you're in

[LassWiTheDelicateAir]

Yabu for using the accessible toilet for putting your make up on. There is absolutely no reason why you could not do that in the general women's toilet. None of the other women will care.

The requirement to use the accessible loo is not limited to people with obvious physical disabilities. Someone with piles or irritable bowel syndrome may welcome the privacy it gives.

If you have no disability you should not be hogging it for an activity you can do in the ladies' toilets.

[LassWiTheDelicateAir]

You cannot tell if the boss had a special requirement to use the disabled loo. They are not limited to obvious physical disabilities.

The OP is being selfish using it to put her make up on.

[Wondermoomin]

Not embarrassing enough to dwell on it

He probably wanted to go for a crap and couldn't because you were putting on your lippie. Every office I've worked in, men have used the accessible toilets for their dumps often taking a newspaper too.

[MunchMunch]

His embarrassment was automatic because he walked in on someone in the toilet - he probably didn't process the fact you were fully clothed and doing make up until after the initial embarrassment had subsided but that was probably as he was closing/closed the door.

[Ohyesiam]

It could have been embarrassing, but it wasn't

[TheProblemOfSusan]

Not embarrassing for the makeup, but please don't use disabled loos if you're not disabled. It's awful for the people who really need them - which very often is people who don't have visible issues.

My very healthy looking friend has a radar key and HAS TO use them because of serious bowel and bladder problems - if she needs to go she has to immediately - and would be really embarrassed to have to tell you to get out.

[Megatherium]

Why do you need more privacy than anyone else?

[Olympiathequeen]

Doesn't the female loo have a mirror and can't you lock the door?
If there are no disabled staff or visitors I can't see a problem with using it.

[Megatherium]

But how does anyone know there are no disabled staff or visitors around? Who cross-examines their visitors as to whether they have any hidden disabilities?

[LassWiTheDelicateAir]

But how does anyone know there are no disabled staff or visitors around? Who cross-examines their visitors as to whether they have any hidden disabilities?

Exactly. TheProblemWithSusan has identified a hidden disability.

[Oldraver]

So...do people who need to use a disabled loo not also want, on occasion to touch up make up ?

[strugglingstepdad]

To those saying about the disabled loo.

It's just a disabled access loo. It's a normal loo for anyone to use, it's just made more accessible for disabled people. They aren't just there for disabled people only.

P.s. I have disabilities

[BrownEyedLady]

Oh goodness, that reminds me about a time when a few colleagues were outside our office waiting for another one to join us to go to the pub. There we were, merrily bitching about our boss, when he came out of the disabled loo right next to us, iPad in hand. Very awkward.

[LassWiTheDelicateAir]

It's just a disabled access loo. It's a normal loo for anyone to use, it's just made more accessible for disabled people. They aren't just there for disabled people only

The OP was using it to put her make up on. She wasn't even using the toilet part.

The only embarrassing thing about it is the OP's lack of manners by failing to leave when someone else obviously wanted to use it for its primary purpose.

[Gwenhwyfar]

"Doesn't the female loo have a mirror and can't you lock the door? "

I'm presuming the women's toilets are cubicles and the mirror would be in the public area of the toilet. Unless it's self-contained, you wouldn't be able to lock the door. I know people do, but I can't put foundation on in front of other people.

[WorraLiberty]

Is this embarrassing?

Unless your sole aim is to start yet another bun fight about people using accessible toilets, that's a very silly question.

It was embarrassing for your boss - obviously

[LassWiTheDelicateAir]

I know people do, but I can't put foundation on in front of other people

An inability to put make up on in front of other women is not a disability.

[Megatherium]

It's just a disabled access loo. It's a normal loo for anyone to use, it's just made more accessible for disabled people. They aren't just there for disabled people only.

That doesn't change the fact that it's thoroughly inconsiderate to use it when you don't need to.

[Chloe84]

It's fine, it's happened to me too.

I have walked in on people on the loo, much more embarrasing, but mostly for them.

[Megatherium]

Surely anyone with a hang-up about putting foundation on in front of other people does so before they leave home in the morning?

[daisypond]

At my work we're not allowed to use the disabled loo unless you have some sort of disability - it would be frowned on to use the accessible loo when you didn't need it. Perhaps the boss was embarrassed because he maybe thought you had some sort of disability he didn't know about - or vice versa - perhaps he was embarrassed because you now know that he has some sort of disability that you didn't know about.

[strugglingstepdad]

It's thoroughly inconsiderate to use it??

Jesus lady, what planet are you on!

It's a loo fgs, who are you to decide if the op's use of it is inconsiderate or not? We all do different things in the loo, as we are all individual.

[CaraAspen]

Lock the door next time. Why on earth didn't you do that?