Long time lurker here. Struggling to know how to handle this one. Works outings have started to get more often in lunches, teas out for any occasion. If someone can't attend on a certain date it gets juggled round until everyone can go. So far so good as I think it's seen as a bonding thing.BUT.. i try to order pretty much the cheapest thing as I'm a single mum plus earn not very much and im the only part timer compared to most of them in the top roles. Lately the consensus has been splitting the bill total between everyone there!! I don't drink either. So last time I had a meal at £10... it ended up costing £18 as the rest had pricey stuff!! Dunno how to handle this without being the one who says they can't afford...I feel embarrassed. If I said no to going they'd just rearrange till I can. I like my colleagues but already they are planning another 2 meals out ..WWYD??
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