She's 10. She's popular, bright and kind. She's also really good at sport. She's in the school football team, they are a great little team and often win. This is relevant because the day after a match one of the boys on the team always picks on her. They are normally friends. Dd has become more and more emotional about this and this year has often been in floods of tears over it.
Her teacher is kind but a bit ineffectual and keeps saying she needs to stand up for herself and toughen up a bit. Dh also says this to her. The teacher says the boy is jealous of her (which confuses her I think) . Today the boy accused dd of breaking another boys water bottle, and then said she'd cheated at something to earn house points - dd was in the top three house point scorers so was given sweets. She was so upset that the boy had said this that she refused to take the sweets.
I know it all sounds petty and I used to try and stay fairly neutral, but this is happening more and more often and I'm getting a bit sick of dd being the one who is told to get a grip and the boy saying the stuff doesn't get told off at all (in dds earshot anyway)
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To think dd doesn't need to 'toughen up'?
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Freddorika · 10/02/2017 22:38
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