Dd's clarinet teacher approached us saying a friend of hers knew somebody with a clarinet to sell, would we be interested.
We agreed to go and try it which we did, but were not convinced about buying it. 10 days later the clarinet teacher phoned asking us to make a decision. So I contacted the seller to say we felt such a purchase needed careful consideration and that we were planning to try other clarinets first before deciding, when he had time.
He didn't reply, instead the clarinet teacher emailed me today to say she had bought the clarinet herself because the seller needed a quick sale! Adding that her financial situation didn't allow her to keep it for long, plus some advice which other make to try at the shop and not to use ebay.
Aibu to feel a bit miffed? The seller obviously really needed the cash, but I feel like an urgency has been forced upon us that I really didn't want or need! We did want to buy a clarinet eventually, but there was no rush. Plus I feel uneasy about a private sale as it won't include any service or comeback if something goes wrong.
Just not sure what to reply to the clarinet teacher!
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DorothyL · 09/02/2017 22:03
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