I'm torn so posting here for traffic.
We have a lot of family due to visit this weekend, to go to a sporting event which has been looked forward to for a very long time.
Sister in law has just text me to say that her daughter has come home from school with chicken pox today. With all the family visiting, the only person who will not be immune is DS who is 3 years old.
Now I know chicken pox isn't a particularly big deal... Everyone gets it and it's part of childhood. But the trouble is my DS has been so poorly recently with cold after cold and a lingering chesty cough for almost a month which is only now starting to clear. I'm anxious for him to catch it firstly as he's been down in the dumps recently, but also he is due to travel back with my mother to her home town 150miles away and stay there for the week. I would hate the thought of him suffering with chicken pox when I'm not there to comfort him.
So the predicament is that sister in law and family cannot get childcare for niece, and will miss the sporting event if they cannot all stay with us.
Do I let them come, as chicken pox is an inevitable part of childhood which DS will catch sooner or later... or do I tell them to stay away because I don't want him to be infected?
Obviously I would rather not have him infected, but I feel so awful at saying niece can't stay and sister in law has just text to say she's in tears and so upset
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TheObserverOne · 09/02/2017 19:51
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