So dp called me to tell me he was 'soooo angry' with ds because he'd broken his brothers/ DS's uncles phone and now he has to pay to get it fixed.
DS is 3, he did brake it by being naughty (he was hitting R, and R dropped his phone and it smashed the screen) he'd been told to stop hitting so I do understand that it wasn't a complete accident, but ds is 3, he didn't mean to brake the phone, he doesn't understand the concept of money, expensive items etc, because he is 3.
me and dp don't live together, and he hasn't had DS since last week so it's hardly stressful for him. I don't get why he phoned me really.
DP clearly annoyed with me because I told him that i don't think he should be too harsh on DS because he didn't mean to brake it, he should give him a time out or something for the hitting and explain that he made R drop his phone and now its broken etc but that's enough I think.
he also lets him play fight etc with him which i don't, so I don't entirely blame DS for the hitting either, how is he supposed to know when it's a game and when it's not. He never hits me, or anyone when he's around me because i've never played with him that way. but if DP and R let him playfight with them, then that's their own stupid fault.
i do accept that i might be being unreasonable though, I'm not an expert in child development but I don't think a 3 year old could understand that a) R could drop his phone, b) that iphones are expensive c) that DP would have to pay for it which leaves him without much money for the rest of the month.
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deai · 09/02/2017 18:11
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