...because I feel terrible.
DS and this girl are the same age and they do occasionally like to play together. She doesn't live here full-time, so this isn't an every day thing.
This morning she was here at 8:30 AM (I didn't even have a bra on yet, FFS!!) because we've had a big snowstorm overnight and wanted DS to come out and play, which he did, but as it's -6 here they weren't out for long.
When they came in, she BEGGED DS to go to her house. And he said "No." so we suggested a film, and other activities, which DS was happy to share but she didn't want to, so she went home. DS said he might come over later.
40 minutes later, she's at our door AGAIN, begging DS to come over. I tell her she's welcome to come in and watch the film and have hot chocolate with us, but DS doesn't want to come and play at hers right now. She was upset and went home.
Now I feel bad because I've upset a 6-year-old on behalf of DS (who has politely refused and doesn't really know what to do in face of persistence!)
Am I doing the wrong thing? Should I make DS go over? We've had a discussion about being polite and compromising and all of that, but he wants to stay home and that's that.
How do I handle this while being considerate of DS's and her feelings?
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gwenneh · 09/02/2017 17:22
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