I have an old work colleague who I think might have had a crush on me but was very shy with me. I had a crush on him but was also nervous so in my nervousness I think I came across standoffish.
He messaged me on Facebook a few weeks after finishing working together saying 'hey (name) how are you? Just wondering if you have that report from (insert meeting name).
Now I may be being ridiculous but I think he likes me and this was his way of getting in contact rather than actually needing information about the report as I've found out he was already sent the notes by a mutual colleague and had them before messaging me. He must have felt just saying how are you was a bit forward. 😂
So I replied saying 'I'm good thanks. I didn't actually keep the report. I kept it for a day and then threw it away'.
He hasn't replied.
So now I'm worried my reply was rude and my best friend said I should have ended with 'how are you?' So I'm keeping the conversation going.
I'm rubbish with message conversations and just aren't good at them.
Was this reply of mine okay or did it suggest disinterest?
I have taken the fact he hasn't replied as disinterest or indifference on his part.
And yes, I know I'm over analysing and no I'm not 14. Just need opinions really. And yes, I'm embarrassed I'm devoting a whole thread to this.
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Notenoughimagination · 07/02/2017 20:00
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