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To hate having my breasts touched?

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Darlink Mon 06-Feb-17 20:32:07

By my husband , that is.
I just hate it.
Is this unusual ?

Floofborksnootandboop Mon 06-Feb-17 20:38:27

I don't know if it's "unusual" but I'm the same. I have never liked it.

RagamuffinAndFidget Mon 06-Feb-17 20:40:15

I don't enjoy it either. Even more so since breastfeeding but it was never particularly enjoyable for me even before that..

TowerRavenSeven Mon 06-Feb-17 20:41:06

I don't like anyone touching my nipples it makes me cringe and my stomach turn inside out. I don't minding the sides or bottom of breasts to be touched.

So no I don't think it's unusual. I will not let dh fall asleep with his arm around me touching my boobs because he involuntary clenches his sissy in his sleep and once (on honeymoon) he grabbed it so hard I thought I was going to pass out. So do you have any 'bad connotations' associated with this?

TowerRavenSeven Mon 06-Feb-17 20:42:09

* fists not sissy for heaven's sake!!

GooodMythicalMorning Mon 06-Feb-17 20:42:55

I hate having mine touched by anyone. Ergh. Not at all. I prefer them to be left alooone.

Darlink Mon 06-Feb-17 20:43:39

Tower, yes that's it , it's more about the nipples. !
No bad connotations and a very relaxed attitude to bodies, nudity, sex etc. but as I get older I just dislike it more and more

ArriettyClock1 Mon 06-Feb-17 20:44:06

clenches his sissy


PetalMettle Mon 06-Feb-17 20:46:11

I thought sissy was a name for penis then!
I've always loved having them played with but now I'm bfing I really don't

ShowOfHands Mon 06-Feb-17 20:46:24

I can't bear it. Breastfeeding made it worse.

Niskayuna Mon 06-Feb-17 20:48:11

Before kids, fine.

After kids - totally no no, and yeah I've googled it because I'm really curious and I kind of want it fixed. I mean, it makes things very awkward. It's like saying "hold my hand but don't touch my middle finger." It's annoying for me. He's pretty patient. I'd like to fix it.

I can only assume it's some nerve issue pertaining to breastfeeding, that perhaps I now associate it only with feeding.

HarryPottersMagicWand Mon 06-Feb-17 20:51:16

I've always loathed having my nipples touched to the point I had to stop BF as I couldn't bear the feeling at all. I keep a bra on with my pyjamas until I'm getting into bed because they rub. Urgh urgh urgh. Makes me cringe. Don't mind around the nipples but it does nothing for me.

sonyaya Mon 06-Feb-17 20:51:44

I love it but it's personal so YANBU

Magicpaintbrush Mon 06-Feb-17 20:53:55

You are not alone, I only like them to be touched when I'm 'in the mood', but at all other times I'm like 'back off!'. It's the nips, they are so sensitive that a slight touch is like an electric shock, which is fine whilst in the throes of passion, but at any other time I utterly detest it. So much so that I have started wearing a sports bra to bed as I just cannot stand my nips brushing against the material of my pyjamas or jiggling about. It sends me into a rage. If DH jokingly tries to touch them to wind me up he is very likely to lose a limb.shock

ClopySow Mon 06-Feb-17 20:54:26

Clenches his sissy is making me laugh.

gamerchick Mon 06-Feb-17 20:56:53

involuntary clenches his sissy in his sleep

I knew what you meant but that properly made me chortle grin

DaphneDeLaFontaine Mon 06-Feb-17 20:57:38

Literally makes my skin crawl. Yuuuuuuck.

Alwaysfrank Mon 06-Feb-17 20:59:52

I'm another cringer who hates having nipples touched. Breastfeeding was never going to work, was it - don't know why I kidded myself it was even worth a try. Good to hear it's not just me!

SpackenDeDoich Mon 06-Feb-17 20:59:57

I hated my ex touching my breasts after I gave birth. It was like he was trying to reclaim them from our DD.
That says far more about him than it does about me.
He was extremely abusive after our DD was born and is now part of my distant past.

Frouby Mon 06-Feb-17 21:04:35

Before bfing ds for 18 months I loved my nipples being touched. Now at best it irrates me. At worst it really really fucking goes right through me.

Trifleorbust Mon 06-Feb-17 21:05:43

Doesn't bother me but does nothing for me.

1wokeuplikethis Mon 06-Feb-17 21:07:35

I liked it before children. But after the first child when I was breastfeeding for almost two years, I couldn't enjoy my nipples being sucked by my husband in a sexual way when it was something my child was doing in an innocent, pure way. It felt the same, and I got a bit confused because it was hard to 'decide' to be turned on or to be neutral.

Haven't breastfed for 3 years now and I've never reverted to enjoying my breasts being touched again. I hate it. Complete passion killer, it sets my teeth on edge. I have very little sensation in my boobs any more and my nipples being played with just feels like a vaguely fuzzy annoyance that I have to bat away.

I can't change it. Much to my husbands dismay. Tough tits. Literally.

alexsmashes Mon 06-Feb-17 21:07:53

This is good to read, I agree with you all. Can't stand it!

FurryLittleTwerp Mon 06-Feb-17 21:08:20

I used to have really sensitive & sexy nipples, but since pregnancy & breast feeding they have become a mixture of numb, unresponsive & horrible.

Gileswithachainsaw Mon 06-Feb-17 21:10:01

Oh I hate it too.

Mainly cos dd1 chewed me up and it bloody hurt. Now I hate having them touched

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