I don't think I'm being unreasonable, but I struggle with boundaries with my parents so I want to check what other people think.
My parents are going away on Thursday for 2 weeks and asked me to bring my DC to see them at the weekend (for background, my parents have told me in the past that it is my job as a parent to bring the children to see the grandparents).
The DC were out from 12.30pm on Saturday until 1.30pm on Sunday at a sleepover, so we planned to take them on Sunday afternoon. Just after lunch on Sunday I got a text from my dad saying that they were going out, so we didn't have time to go and see them.
I was a bit miffed as I had planned our afternoon around visiting them, but no biggy really, and I just replied with 'ok, we'll see you another day then'.
Roll on to this morning and my dad has said that he'd like to see them after school one day before they go. So, am I being unreasonable to ask my parents to come to our house (3 miles away) to see the DC as otherwise I won't have a chance to cook a home cooked meal for tea (because of club timings and my work)?
I know that my mum will spin this, as 'we're going away for 2 weeks and Coffee won't bring the DC to see us before we go' but am I really being unreasonable?
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coffeetasteslikeshit · 06/02/2017 11:49
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