He's male, early twenties
Firstly I am not a crazed peado hunter. I used a male childminder for years when my children were young.
There's something just a bit off about him, I'm not sure if it's because he tries very hard to be "down with the kids" or because he is quite immature, but my gut just says something is wrong.
Two incidences: firstly DD left yr 6 last year. He wrote in her leavers book, Dear x, will miss you when you go to high school (crying face), stay away from the boys (winky face) lol lol lol, lots of love Mr X. Then a few kisses.
Today DS said oh DD was crying st school today and stayed with Mr X at lunch time. It was well gross he was rubbing her neck. I asked DD (6) what he meant and she said that she had fallen out with her friends and Mr X said she could stay with him for lunch time. They were sat on a bench and he was rubbing her neck I asked her to show me how and it was like a light squeezing motion back and forth.
I can't work out if I am being over sensitive because I didn't like the note he put in DDs book last year or if this is normal?
What do you think?
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To be concerned about this mid day assistant?
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Orangedoesrhyme · 01/02/2017 19:06
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