Okay so basically my DP announced he is getting a large tattoo which will cost around £1000 in total . We are just starting our family, 1 DC and planning for another and don't have tons of cash, don't go on fancy holidays etc and I'm only on SMP which will run out in May. I like tattoos but I don't feel I can support him in this.
He says he wants my support through it but I simply can't understand how he is okay spending so much purely on himself and how he looks. He says he has wanted it for ages and has done loads for me and DD (both true). I just feel like that money could be put towards something he will get more fulfillment from (doesn't have to involve me or DD) like a bike or a holiday. We are hardly talking ATM as he says this is just me being too frugal and trying to control him as usual. AIBU by not supporting him? Advice please!
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Hyggemama · 30/01/2017 09:16
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