DH and I are discussing TTC another baby. We already have a toddler DD.
We both think we would like to have another baby at some point. We're sort of undecided. Among other things, I am a little worried about having another DC while I'm not working. I took voluntary redundancy while I was still on mat leave. I didn't really have the most dazzling career, but I liked working and I am looking forward to going back eventually. My worry is that I'll be waiting a long time to do that if we have another DC, whereas if we hold out for another few years or just stick with one DC, I could go back sooner. Because my career isn't likely to be dazzling any time soon though, it seems silly to choose not to have another baby, just so I can go back to it iyswim.
At the minute we are fine financially without the income mat leave would provide, so that isn't the issue.
Fwiw we're 33 and 31 so could wait a little longer before I felt time was running out to TTC.
Another think I am worried about is how big a gap I'm going to have in my cv and how poor my prospects will be when I eventually go back to work. I know it will be worth it in the long run and it's the choice I made when I gave up work to be a SAHP, but I guess I just feel a bit vulnerable.
Wonder what other people think and if they've had similar experiences.
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Worried about having another baby as a SAHP
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KlingybunFistelvase · 29/01/2017 11:58
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