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To pick a school because of their school blazer?

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volviccc Fri 27-Jan-17 12:12:53

DS will be starting at a prep school with the fees paid for by his dad. I pay uniform, extras, etc. (We are not together)...

He will pay for DD to start 2 years after. There are 2 schools that we can't pick between, one has a male/female blazer and the other school has a unisex one.

WIBU to just pick the school with unisex blazer, so DD can have it? The schools are parallel ATM and I just can't decide.

kitXi Fri 27-Jan-17 12:16:11

Well if that's the only thing separating the two schools I don't see why not. It's not as though you haven't done any research and are solely choosing based on the blazer!

blue2014 Fri 27-Jan-17 12:18:18

Also (and I'm reading too much into this!) I like the equality message of the unisex blazer smile

NotThrowAwayMyShot Fri 27-Jan-17 12:18:28

You really need to think which school you prefer.

And whilst different Blazers may seem silly for your reception aged child bybthectime your daughter hits year 5/6 & starts to develop you may find that the cut of the girls blazers suits her more.

NotThrowAwayMyShot Fri 27-Jan-17 12:19:58

Dd goes to a school with unisex Blazers & hates how it makes her feel frumpy. Ds's school has different Blazers for girls which are loose & fitted in places that suit the developing female figure better b

volviccc Fri 27-Jan-17 12:21:29

Ah, different views!

Sirzy Fri 27-Jan-17 12:21:34

If that is genuinely the only difference then that's fine. Picking solely on the blazer would be wrong!

I assume you have considered which schools they feed onto?

AndNoneForGretchenWieners Fri 27-Jan-17 12:23:15

DS's academy has a girls and boys blazer. The boys one has purple lining. The girls has pink lining. No other differences at all. I'm so glad I don't have a daughter.

volviccc Fri 27-Jan-17 12:24:20

Sirzy how do I actually do that? I have tried!

Just looked and the male/female blazers are £32 cheaper than the unisex one! shockshock

LittleMissPrefect Fri 27-Jan-17 12:27:47

Yes volviccc, you are being unreasonable. You owe it to your children to research both schools in order to arrive at an informed decision. If it were me, I would also want to know what parents had to say about the respective schools.

volviccc Fri 27-Jan-17 12:38:59

Little you honestly think I haven't researched both schools?shock I have attended both open days and had a private tour... Looked at their report, etc.

LittleMissPrefect Fri 27-Jan-17 12:56:47

volviccc, it cannot depend on the flip of coin, which is essentially what you're talking about. Have you spoken to parents? Did you manage to get some inside gossip?

NotThrowAwayMyShot Fri 27-Jan-17 13:05:48

Sometimes it has to come down to gut feeling. And uniform can be a part of that. Depends whether you feel that certain aspects of a uniform policy are petty & more for show than anything or whether you think it indicates a firm policy & upholding standards for example.

Nataleejah Fri 27-Jan-17 23:19:35

This belongs under "first world problems" grin YABU

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