Sorry - this has probably been done?
Heavily pregnant and worried I wont love the baby as a 'proper' mother should? Don't get me wrong, the baby IS wanted, I'm just worried I'm too awkward and really don't know how to be a parent?
My DM was frost itself, never ever said she loved me, was disengaged, disinterested and if I'm honest looking back oddly jealous? ... I used to think it was just me but before she died (not old so can't blame senility) said in all seriousness 'I hate that child' re a grandkid.
DF - very complex, again pretty uninterested and full of compliments such as 'thickit, moron, nummock etc' .... yet very jovial at times, but very angry and a bit violent at others. Also very manipulative and great at emotional blackmail and will happily call anyone a liar that challenges him on bad behaviour. '
I suppose I'm worried I will be a shit Mam, and mess up my kid. I've felt a bit disconnected all pregnancy. Does it all just fall in to place? Is there such a thing as a mothering instinct?
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To ask.... love, does it all click with firstborn?
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Backt0Black · 26/01/2017 22:22
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