To be obsessing over the sex

[FrenchieCurls]

Hello. This weekend i went out with an old bf. We were together when i was 20 and my DS was a baby for six months. Im now 14 years older with another child. We met up and hes hardly changed. After a lovely night out we did the deed. Since then hes texted alot and were trying to find time for another date.
Ive gone into paranoid mode! Im 14 yrs older than when we first met ive had another child and sorry for tmi but down there isnt as tight and it took him a while to cum. Is he just humouring me??

[NancyDonahue]

It doesn't sound like he was put off if he's asking to see you again. He's 14 years older too! Relax

[MrsTerryPratchett]

He's probably thinking, "what a stud, I last so much longer now".

[FrenchieCurls]

God i knew i was being paranoid. What if he thinks he owes me something? Hes like the nicest person ever!

[MrsTerryPratchett]

Are you going to worry so much you don't enjoy this?

[FrenchieCurls]

Probably. People used to call us Barbie and ken back in the day lol

[TheNaze73]

I think he'd find time for another date if he's genuinely interested

[Morphene]

That is full on paranoid....remember, he is allowed to be a decent bloke who enjoys sex with someone his is attracted to, without even particularly noticing or forming an opinion on the nature of their fanjo.

[FrenchieCurls]

I hope so Morphene. I sound insane

[FlyingElbows]

If he's bothered by your 14 year older fanjo then you'd be better off steering well clear! His balls are 14 years saggier, his libido is 14 years older, his hair is 14 years thinner but I'm sure you're not spending much time critiquing them. Stop panicking

[FrenchieCurls]

Im only 33 as well

[FrenchieCurls]

I hope not elbows. I always regretted ending our relationship

[MrsTerryPratchett]

Was it fun? Was he lovely?

[FrenchieCurls]

It was amazing and just like old times! Im being insane and paranoid

[NancyDonahue]

His balls are 14 years saggier. Full on laughing at this

[FrenchieCurls]

So are my boobs. Trust me to have a child that insisted on feeding for 2 years!

[FrenchieCurls]

Hes coming round here on Friday for food !

[DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen]

Men don't usually humour women if they're not interested ime.

Have fun!

[FrenchieCurls]

I know drama queen im being irrational. My dd is desperate to meet the man 'whose making mummy smile' lol

[DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen]

You wouldn't introduce them yet would you? But early yet imo.

[Itisnoteasybeingdifferent]

You have moist definitely still got it..
Enjoy it..
Stop worrying

[DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen]

LOL@ moist

[AnyFucker]

It's a bit soon to introduce him to your kids, isn't it ?

[FrenchieCurls]

Well he obviously knew my son when he was a baby not as a 14 year old but no my kids won't be there. Although my dd will probably try to hang out to catch a glimpse

[Ilovetorrentialrain]

Ooh I was getting all misty eyes and whisful then, but thew last post. OP take your time with introducing DD, you don't sound 100% sure and it's only been one date!

[Ilovetorrentialrain]

Oh OK sorry. I assumed from your post your DD would meet him! Phew.