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FrenchieCurls Tue 24-Jan-17 17:07:46

Hello. This weekend i went out with an old bf. We were together when i was 20 and my DS was a baby for six months. Im now 14 years older with another child. We met up and hes hardly changed. After a lovely night out we did the deed. Since then hes texted alot and were trying to find time for another date.
Ive gone into paranoid mode! Im 14 yrs older than when we first met ive had another child and sorry for tmi but down there isnt as tight and it took him a while to cum. Is he just humouring me??

NancyDonahue Tue 24-Jan-17 17:13:34

It doesn't sound like he was put off if he's asking to see you again. He's 14 years older too! Relax flowers

MrsTerryPratchett Tue 24-Jan-17 17:14:35

He's probably thinking, "what a stud, I last so much longer now".

FrenchieCurls Tue 24-Jan-17 17:16:05

God i knew i was being paranoid. What if he thinks he owes me something? Hes like the nicest person ever!

MrsTerryPratchett Tue 24-Jan-17 17:17:39

Are you going to worry so much you don't enjoy this? <stern look>

FrenchieCurls Tue 24-Jan-17 17:19:14

Probably. People used to call us Barbie and ken back in the day lol

TheNaze73 Tue 24-Jan-17 17:20:34

I think he'd find time for another date if he's genuinely interested

Morphene Tue 24-Jan-17 17:23:10

That is full on paranoid....remember, he is allowed to be a decent bloke who enjoys sex with someone his is attracted to, without even particularly noticing or forming an opinion on the nature of their fanjo.

FrenchieCurls Tue 24-Jan-17 17:25:40

I hope so Morphene. I sound insane

FlyingElbows Tue 24-Jan-17 17:27:04

If he's bothered by your 14 year older fanjo then you'd be better off steering well clear! His balls are 14 years saggier, his libido is 14 years older, his hair is 14 years thinner but I'm sure you're not spending much time critiquing them. Stop panicking wink

FrenchieCurls Tue 24-Jan-17 17:27:07

Im only 33 as well

FrenchieCurls Tue 24-Jan-17 17:32:36

I hope not elbows. I always regretted ending our relationship

MrsTerryPratchett Tue 24-Jan-17 17:50:57

Was it fun? Was he lovely? <sigh>

FrenchieCurls Tue 24-Jan-17 17:53:47

It was amazing and just like old times! Im being insane and paranoid

NancyDonahue Tue 24-Jan-17 17:56:44

His balls are 14 years saggier. Full on laughing at this grin

FrenchieCurls Tue 24-Jan-17 18:10:56

So are my boobs. Trust me to have a child that insisted on feeding for 2 years!

FrenchieCurls Wed 25-Jan-17 18:52:44

Hes coming round here on Friday for food !

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen Wed 25-Jan-17 18:56:25

Men don't usually humour women if they're not interested ime.

Have fun!

FrenchieCurls Wed 25-Jan-17 19:04:22

I know drama queen im being irrational. My dd is desperate to meet the man 'whose making mummy smile' lol

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen Wed 25-Jan-17 19:06:09

You wouldn't introduce them yet would you? But early yet imo.

Itisnoteasybeingdifferent Wed 25-Jan-17 19:16:05

You have moist definitely still got it..
Enjoy it..
Stop worrying

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen Wed 25-Jan-17 19:17:24

LOL@ moistgrin

AnyFucker Wed 25-Jan-17 19:21:21

It's a bit soon to introduce him to your kids, isn't it ?

FrenchieCurls Wed 25-Jan-17 19:24:43

Well he obviously knew my son when he was a baby not as a 14 year old but no my kids won't be there. Although my dd will probably try to hang out to catch a glimpse

Ilovetorrentialrain Wed 25-Jan-17 19:25:27

Ooh I was getting all misty eyes and whisful then, but thew last post. OP take your time with introducing DD, you don't sound 100% sure and it's only been one date!

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