So back story MIL died last year and didn't have a will so money is being split between 3 siblings. First part is being released next week and the rest on completion of house being sold so a few months yet.
We are looking to buy a house next year and use a lot of it as a deposit so I have been looking at best savings account, help to buy ISA's etc. Just spoke to DH about opening the help to buy one as it's limited per month so the sooner it's opened the more we get back for our house move and initial down payment is £2500 (he is getting 25k) next week.
To be told he has already agreed to give it to other siblings as one wants to buy a house and put in an offer before having the money and other wants a fresh start so wants 6 months rent upfront. It's not that he has lent it as I get that it's that I am literally told that's happening. I feel like this isn't a marriage and neither of them would lend him that sort of money without actually having a conversation with their other half. Instead I get told it's happening he has already arranged it and despite us losing out on money for the purchase of our house 'it doesn't matter' and I should get over it as it's done.
Really feel like this isn't a partnership and I am so often left out of the loop I have had enough
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Mousedl1 · 24/01/2017 10:35
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