I sound about 12 I know but I'm feeling fragile at being left out...
I have what I thought was a very close friend....we meet up frequently as families and have dinner, the kids play together, we confide in each other. I frequently help her with her kids etc, people locally know we are friends and our kids play together.
she is also friends with a group of women who I am not friends with, and they actively dislike me after a minor falling out some months ago. we don't discuss it - its a case of hey ho, no biggie.
she was pg, and had the babe last week, while in hospital a distant mutual friend came to mine for a coffee, and asked how my friends baby shower was. I had to reply that actually I didn't know anything about the baby shower and hadn't been invited. mutual friend was mortified and apologetic for mentioning it, she naturally assumed I would have been there as other mutual friends were and she had heard about it on the grapevine.....
I am left feeling very upset that I wasn't invited to the baby shower - and am torn thinking:
oh buck up you're being silly
the friends who dislike me must have organised it and therefore did not invite me (I'm ok with this - but still gutted my friend did not tell me)
maybe it was a surprise - but even so tell me afterwards...
friend has just had a baby and i can't upset her by saying anything
i have to say something....its been a very tearful few days for me, and now friend keeps texting wanting me to visit etc.
aibu to be upset at being left out, or would expect a close friend to mention a baby shower?
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babyshowerloner · 23/01/2017 22:15
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