As DS is extremely picky it can be difficult to get him to eat a good breakfast, particularly when we're rushed in the morning. DS is 12, from former relationship, father left me when I was pregnant, I have always been sole carer and have recently remarried. Last week I was ill and DH served special K every day. Then I get a text ordering me to buy Biona Rye bread instead as apparently Special K 'has almost no vitality'
I suspect it is because his father is really neurotic about food (believes microwaves destroy the energy in your food, no pork, no alcohol, no wheat, no dairy, lots of fears around food generally...
Anyway, I get these regular, peremptory texts from my ex telling me how to bring up DS (who he now takes an interest in). They are driving me mad.
I really try to feed my son properly but it is not easy as I never know what he will take against next. Latest count is, he won't eat any sauces of any description, no sweet and sour, no fruit with meat, no granola, no muesli, no eggs (his father told him he's allergic to eggs and dairy), I just can't remember it all...
It's just stressful really. Two years ago DS was verging on anorexic and refusing to eat school dinner (he claimed it was too poor quality!) so I took him to see Jane Clarke, David Beckham's nutritionist (well worth the extra fee as what small boy will ignore David Beckham's nutritionist?!) who identified that my ex wasn't giving him enough protein. She was brilliant and inspired him with tales of how Beckham can run faster when he gets his diet right, and he is eating a bit better now, but his father still feeds him rabbit food (acorns when he was three, which made him sick... lots of nettle soup... irritating photographs of gourmet organic meals from his stepmother... heaven knows what else...)
It's the rather peremptory way he phrases it that I find especially difficult... as though I was the nanny!
DH thinks I should reply with an auto text which says 'try to be a bit more relaxed about food...'
Would love some ideas... Please be gentle... feeling fragile at the moment!
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waterfallrainbow · 22/01/2017 22:05
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