DD (12) suffers from severe anxiety and this makes it very difficult for her to speak in class. Recently her anxiety has been getting worse and she has started self harming again. Something she stopped about a year ago. I have been talking to the school and they have put several things in place to support DD, including saying she doesn't have to speak in class if she is feeling overwhelmed. So far, so good.
Today DD had a lesson with a teacher she is afraid of. She has this teacher one lesson a week and literally shakes in her class. DD says shes a very angry teacher who shouts all the time.
It got to near the end of the lesson today and teacher asked DD to answer some questions. DD said no she didn't know, but the teacher kept pushing for an answer and started shouting at DD. At this point DD burst into tears.
There was a TA in the class, who wasn't actually working with the class, but who was sorting out some paperwork. She has worked with DD previously and realised what was happening. She removed DD from the class and took her to a safe place to calm down. As they left the classroom, the teacher apparently shouted after them that she wasn't asking anything hard, and that she only needed to say one sentence.
The TA was brilliant and really looked after DD.
Two lessons later, DD was sent to the nurse as she self harmed in class and was bleeding.
The teacher is very high in the school management, so for the TA to go against her must have taken a lot of courage.
My question to you is..how angry and upset would you be?
I have a meeting with the school on Monday and I want to make sure I respond appropriately. As a bit of background, until 2 years ago DD was a school refuser but has done so well to get here. I've just been through so much to get DD to this point that I sometimes feel I under estimate how good/bad situations are.
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Serious incidence at school. Help please
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piedpiper4 · 19/01/2017 18:20
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