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In laws imposition.

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Cackleberry4 Tue 17-Jan-17 19:13:50

AIBU to expect a discussion with my inlaws to arange their impending visit(s).

They have an infuriating habit of announcing their arrrival without any consultation. We have busy lives and find their declarations tedious.

Yes, we could say no, but it's not that easy.

TaliDiNozzo Tue 17-Jan-17 19:16:19

More detail needed really. If they're popping in for a cup of tea every couple of weeks or so then that's probably okay. If they're turning up with suitcases to stay for the weekend then that's probably not.

Your use of the word 'tedious' sounds as though you don't like them much tbh.

ollieplimsoles Tue 17-Jan-17 19:17:32

Need more info:

How far away are they?
How does dh/dp feel?
Why do they get on your tits so much?

ollieplimsoles Tue 17-Jan-17 19:17:33

Need more info:

How far away are they?
How does dh/dp feel?
Why do they get on your tits so much?

Pineappletastic Tue 17-Jan-17 19:18:42

Why is it not that easy to say no?

HecateAntaia Tue 17-Jan-17 19:19:34

Not unreasonable at all.
But unless you're prepared to say something you're stuck with it.
How does your husband feel about it?

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