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Infinityplus1 Sun 15-Jan-17 18:12:50

N/c. identifying when linked with my usual name.

I have a very, very good friend who has had a difficult time recently. She's a bit all over the place (understandably) and I have been trying to support her. We've known each other for a very long time.

A conversation happened yesterday, the outcome of which I thought was her arranging to come and stay, then me going to stay with her in a few weeks. I can't go to her immediately because of my job. All seemed fine.

But overnight..I don't know what happened....I got a horrible message this morning saying I had said I had too much on to see her but that I had said she could come stay despite knowing that was very difficult for her.

i rang her straight away but no answer. Then I sent a message. She has now blocked me, as far as I can tell.

I'm so sad. sad

NavyandWhite Sun 15-Jan-17 18:18:36

How odd. She sounds in a bad place.
Could you drop her a letter explaining what you actually meant?

Infinityplus1 Sun 15-Jan-17 18:19:48

She really is. Yeah, a letter isn't a bad idea.

NavyandWhite Sun 15-Jan-17 18:52:28

Hope you can sort it. For both your sakes.

Infinityplus1 Sun 15-Jan-17 18:53:48

Thanks. I feel like crap tbh.

NavyandWhite Sun 15-Jan-17 18:56:30

I bet. Could you go over to see her rather than a letter?

Infinityplus1 Sun 15-Jan-17 19:00:02

She lives 3 hours away (hence not being able to drop everything and go)

NavyandWhite Sun 15-Jan-17 19:04:17

Ah right I get you. Does she have other support? Sounds like a big worry for you. Write a letter explains everything and hopefully she will see reason.

Infinityplus1 Sun 15-Jan-17 20:11:15

She does, a bit.

Equally I feel pretty flipping hurt and angry.

NavyandWhite Sun 15-Jan-17 20:49:42

Has she done something like this before?

Infinityplus1 Sun 15-Jan-17 21:19:28

No. She's always been a wee bit flaky.

But nothing like this, at least not to me.

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