My dh says I am being unreasonable what do you think? We have three dc they will be 25, nearly 15 and 13 this sept. My 2 lads have high functioning asd but are very settled at the moment. My dh is 56 and has a heart condition that killed our eldest son 2 and a half years ago. 18 months after he died and we had been through the trauma of my other sons being diagnosed with the same gene I took my dh away on a cruise with my sister and brother in law. He needed some time away to cope with things but it was meant to be a one off treat. He wants to go again this year he says he may not have much time left and wants to do things the dc don't want to do before he dies. My mother says I am a bad mum for leaving them she never went away and left us before we were 18. I have a responsible person looking after them. I feel torn about leaving them again. We are going away as a family as well this year. wwyd?
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