I have been seeing my boyfriend for over two years. We are in our thirties.
He lives with his mum and me with my parents and my daughter.
He stays over Thursday nights and Sundays from about 6pm and I stay at his Friday nights while my parents take my daughter to a church club.
We are saving to buy a housr and may have enough by next Christmas.
I wake up Saturday morning and I am home usually between 9-10 for my daughter. Sometimes on the Saturday she sees her Dad. She hasn't in two weeks as he is working ( but that's another story).
So I spend all day Saturday without oh and all day Sunday until 6pm. I usually do work on Sunday for my job for several hours.
Now he is really into gaming and uses this to relax. His argument is that if he hangs out at mine there is nothing to do. His pc is not at mine etc. Plus hanging out with either parents constantly is a bit rubbish.
We could take my daughter out but she is usually at her Dads for a few hours.
Am I unreasonable to feel lonely all weekend. I am prepared to accept if I am. I just get a bit sad seeing all these couples on facebook doing stuff together. ( I know I know)
In order to not drip feed. We lives 15 minutes drive apart.
We also work together. So drive in and out together and maybe see each other for 20 minutes at lunch and maybe another 30 minutes in work time though thats with other people.
Am I being silly?
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AIBU thinking I don't see my boyfriend enough?
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Tinkerbec · 15/01/2017 12:51
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