I might be unreasonable and I might not. Either way, I'm sure you will all tell me.
I want to know what to do in this situation.
DD is 8 and has a little friend who is very close to her...also 8. The friend, every time she visits which is quite often, walks in and immediately asks for food.
She will usually ask DD who then asks me....I offer lunch or snacks as normal but this child is simply never full....if you offer her a biscuit tin, she will take 6 biscuits...a handful...I've stopped offering her...I just give her two biscuits now...but DD will sometimes sneak the tin out on this child's request. I've spoken to DD about it and she says the kid just goes on and on about it
.DD is allowed to get herself a cracker or something and does so without asking as she never eats anything really unless she's hungry...but this child will literally eat ALL the crackers there are...so two packs of cheesy crackers...just bought and meant for snacks for DD for a week are now gone.
I made them pasta and cheese which they like...with a side salad and ham.
The visiting child will say "Can I have more cheese? A LOT more?" in a way which I find rude...she'll expect half a block!
I don't give it...cheese is frigging expensive here and it has to last as I"m on a budget.
What do I do about the constant demands/requests for food/more food?
I usually just say "That's enough for now" or similar but then literally five minutes later, she will be whispering to DD "Get the cakes out of the freezer!"
And DD doesn't like saying no but knows it's unreasonable and so will ask me then get upset/concerned that her friend hasn't got what she wants.
I DO feed them....not small portions...but this is not ok with me and I just know what to do about it! I don't want to appear mean but I also don't want this child eating what would usually last for a week in one day!
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AIBU to find visiting child greedy and rude?
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user1477282676 · 15/01/2017 03:41
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