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aibu to feel angry about this

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sum1killthepawpatrollers Thu 12-Jan-17 16:17:57

nc for this
background is fallen out with a friend, she told me and other close friends a reason for this but now 9months later its come to light that shes told other not as close friends another reason. basically this reason pretty much accuses me of sexually assaulting her

im pretty pissed off that shes said this, one mate agrees its shocking n deffo not the version she was told but another mate says just forget it, shes not worth it, its in the past and that my true mates know the truth and not fuss what others think ect but i cant get over the fact shes told people this

aibu to be upset and angry?

Bluntness100 Thu 12-Jan-17 16:19:40

You can't be asking seriously? She is telling people you sexually assaulted her? If you didn't, and I hope to God you didn't, then of course it's not unreasonable.

If you did then she should tell everyone and the police.

AnchorDownDeepBreath Thu 12-Jan-17 16:21:15

Did you do something to hear that she can reasonably construe as sexual assault?

It's difficult to ascertain if you're upset that she's saying this because it didn't happen or if you're upset she's telling people.

sum1killthepawpatrollers Thu 12-Jan-17 16:26:55

im upset that shes saying this. i cant prove it didnt happen now, although if id known at the time i could as cctv would have shown me somewhere at the time it supposed to have happened so on the same hand she cant prove it did.
she never mentioned it to me at the time and was in fact talking and acting normally for a week after, all in texts to show this too.

i would do anything and every thing i could if it would show i was telling the truth that it didnt happen

RebelRogue Thu 12-Jan-17 16:34:48

Did you ever do anything that could be interpreted as sexual assault even if not at the time in question?

Basically there's not a lot you can do. YANBU to be angry if it's not true,but most reactions from you would just add fuel to the fire.

sum1killthepawpatrollers Thu 12-Jan-17 16:39:38

no i never did anything that could be interpreted that way.
there will be no reaction as such from me, 2 friends know how upset i am to have been accused of this but thats the only reaction ive had to it

EweAreHere Thu 12-Jan-17 17:10:02

Your friend is slandering you. I would tell her you're consulting an attorney for the damage to your reputation if she doesn't stop.

sum1killthepawpatrollers Thu 12-Jan-17 17:20:35

im just so shocked that a friend who i was closer to than anything, would have and did do anything for, would say this. its also puzzling why she would tell people who are more acquaintances this story yet the ones shes closest too she has told the same reason she told me.
wether this is because they are a lil bit more wary of what she says as in the past there have been times when others have questioned things shes said ( childhood abuse) as her stories varied each time or she would exaggerate things but i always believed her as no reason not to trust her.

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