Childcare issues this week and possibly next, meaning DP and l have to manage between ourselves DS pick ups from the nursery. We both work full time, no family , friends who could help out. We have agreed over the weekend he will do pick up on Mon and Thurs and l do other days.
So far l did every single day this week, meaning l had to wake up earlier to get to work earlier than usual and also login later after DS went to bed and try to make up hours.
This evening DP turns home at 8 pm, after stop over at the pub after work and asks what time l will be home tomorrow, l say same as usual, which is 6-ish. He started to roll eyes and mutter 'I can't sit with him from 3-6, l need to work'. To which l replied 'so do l'. He stormed out of the room.
Now, next week he goes away on business trip, so l will have to do the whole week of pick ups and drop offs.
AIBU to expect him to take some responsibility and be a parent to? Or because he is a higher earner l should suck it up and sacrifice my work.
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Mozartinmyfanjo · 11/01/2017 21:00
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