DS has two lots of music lessons a week during term time. Music is his "thing" and he wants to pursue it as a career (as a teacher)- the music is categorically NOT at our insistence.
What we do insist on is that he takes care of his instruments, practices regularly (I would like daily practice but in reality 5x a week I'm happy with) and turns up to lessons.
Yet again I've just discovered that he forgot his guitar today so simply didn't bother to turn up to his lesson. I am absolutely livid as
- this is not the first time he's missed lessons or forgotten instruments
- he didn't even have the courtesy to go and apologise to his teacher (who probably had a spare he could have used anyway)
- I reminded him about it not fifteen minutes before he left the house.
I've now said that I will cancel the lessons as he just doesn't show the commitment he needs (it was a tricky Christmas due to a family bereavement but I doubt either instrument has been out of its case more than a handful of times since school broke up)
AIBU? He's almost 13 and has been having lessons since yr4 so it's not that it's a novelty he's still getting used to. He's currently playing morosely in his room and giving the occasional sniff as if somehow he is the hardest done by child in the world. Meanwhile I'm about to go to work to pay for music lessons that he doesn't bloody turn up to