Mil wants ds (17m) at her house but wont get stairgates as it will 'ruin' her decor....
Our sil has told her to use a pressure attached stairgate rather than one you screw to the wall and has given her one that she doesnt use (its for the top of the stairs!)
My understanding is that the pressure fitted ones are not safe for tops of stairs as;
- the bottom bar of the frame creates a tripping hazzard
- they can fall down when pushed against
Its not my sil whose child will be affected (mil goes to their house) so im pissed off she got involved.
Aibu to insist on a safe gate or refuse her having him?