This is more of a collective are we being unreasonable although the others obviously don't know I'm posting.
Group of 6 of us mums from school: a couple of us knew each other vaguely but when our eldest kids started pre-school we all became quite close pretty quickly and formed a really good friendship group. This was 6 years ago now.
2 years ago friend A's husband left her which was horrendous for her. We all came to her aid, helping with kids, going round, calling in. But since then it has been non stop drama and angst. The rest of us have also suffered bad times, there has been another marriage breakdown, death of close family members, pregnancies, a miscarriage and throughout all of these she has not been there for any of the rest of us.Â
She pleads for our advice and help constantly but never acts on it, never returns any offers of help or hospitality and its wearing us all down.
2 of the others have had enough, we all used to meet almost every week now there's just excuses from some and we all just cobble together when we can.Â
What do we do? There is another day we could meet up when she works but it feels underhand. She just takes, takes, takes and NEVER gives anything back despite the rest of us having miserable, hard times. We're human at the end of the day. When we do meet up and we're not talking about her she gets this 'dead' look on her face and then finally interrupts it back to her and I mean every time.
Has anyone been through anything like this before? What did you do?Â
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