Calling all WW helpers!
Quick random question - as a helper, what does your leader / coach expect you to do?
Do you:
Unpack car
Set up shop and rest of meeting
Run shop
Help weigh in
Meet and greet new members and help them sign up
Cash up shop
Pack up everything and load up car
Fold down tables and chairs and put away?
Background:
Last year I found myself being a helper for a WW group that a school mum friend started. I didn't offer, it was just assumed! Having no backbone and being a people pleaser I stuck with it as didn't want to let school mum friend down.
Meeting was in town 20-30 mins away (depending on traffic) as WW asked her to do meeting in that specific town and she's only recently asked for and arranged new meeting where we live. I've now moved to help at that meeting instead but she'd asked me to do both meetings this month to help with new members as she hasn't arranged a proper replacement helper for me in original meeting.
I have been doing most of the list above most of the time. Recently I've not been able to get to meeting early to help set up (childcare issues - often I've had to bring kids with me, including occasions when DP would have been back in time for me to get to meeting 10 mins before it started but friend was running late so sent emergency text asking me to get there earlier) I've also ended up leaving her to pack up car on a few occasions as meeting had run over and I needed to get home in an attempt to have my tea before 9pm!
Last meeting (very first meeting of new group in home town) I arrived 50 mins before meeting start time in order to help set up, I did welcoming, shop and weighing in meeting, packed up all shop, weighing stuff, washed and dried and put away all cups from the cuppas people had during meeting, loaded my car up with all her stuff, drove her home and unloaded her stuff. While I was packing away she was doing her admin from the meeting. I asked her twice to put away chairs and tables so that we could go as I'd been there three hours at that point and wanted to get home and have tea.
Interested to know what other WW helpers do as I'm sure I'm being expected to do too much. I've told her she needs to ask people from new meeting to be helpers as I can only do it for a couple more months.
Helping has made me go, so it's made me persevere with eating healthily but I'd rather pay my membership and be free to just pop into meetings. I don't really track or count any more and am still losing so to be honest I'd probably be okay with a proper pair of scales and making sure I weigh regularly to make sure I stay focused on being healthy.
So, AIBU to think that I'm being expected to do too much and to be firm with her about what level of help is appropriate?
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BakingWithPreSchoolerand6YO · 10/01/2017 10:00
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