He moved out in the summer of 2014 and has had his own place for just under a year, yet all his mail still comes to me. Usually I pass it on but a couple of times I have opened it.
He has always been appalling with money and has never had a career to speak of. It seems he has built up at least £6K of debt since leaving me. I have seen two letters threatening him with the involvement of debt collection agencies. It is very, very rare for me to open his mail, so I struggle to believe these are the only two letters there have been, so he seems to be taking no action. I took a call from his bank the other day and there had been numerous missed calls from the same number. I told them the situation and they urged me to put all his post back in the post marked 'not known at this address', but I am worried about what he will do if he finds out. We are going through a divorce and I am scared he will be less reasonable over the children and finances if I do this. I have 5 letters marked up in my bag but can't bring myself to post them.
My solicitor has even said the house could be at risk and this situation could jeopardise a financial settlement. I just don't know what to do - it feels like he is dragging me, and the dc, down with him and there is nothing I can do about it.
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To put stbex's post back in the postbox marked 'not known at this address'?
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woundedplacerias · 03/01/2017 21:01
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