For clarity I would never punch someone as I am a good egg, I'm just curious.
DH and I were back in the town we grew up in the other day (it's a very backwards rural area with weird ideas, lots of prejudice etc, for context) as we were helping with a show. DD was being looked after by my mum. We popped to the chippy to get some lunch, and while we're in the queue, this woman walks up to us and stands beside us in the queue rather than behind us, and starts just making polite small talk.
I reached out my phone to make sure my mum hadn't messaged me if DD needed anything, at which point the conversation goes like this -
Woman - "How much do you spend on that thing? The average time you young people spend on there is five hours. Do you spend five hours on it?".
Me - "Probably" (I wasn't really sure what she was getting at so I just went along with it).
Her - "When my grandchildren come to visit me, I ban devices. They're there to sit and spend time with me, not look at their phones".
Me - "Oh, that's a good rule to have".
Her - "It's a very good rule to have, I know! Well don't you have a life? Don't you have a job to go to?".
Me - "I'm a stay at home mum".
Her - "Well where's your child then?"
Me - "She's spending some time with her nan".
Her - "You young people. You can't be a very good mum if you're on your phone".
Me - "Well I don't use it when I'm with her..."
Her - "Does she know who her mummy is?"
Me - "Yes..."
Her - "Well, do you spend any time with her? Does she know her numbers? Does she know her alphabet?".
At this point I just started laughing as she carried on ranting in the queue behind us. Thankfully we were served at this point and left quickly. She'd started moaning to the people behind her about young people and their phones. I'm 22 and I was checking for messages, I'm not exactly a moody teenager or playing Candy Crush 24/7
I just don't understand how people can get to a fair age (she was at least 60) without getting punched for saying the wrong thing to the wrong person? I don't condone violence, it's just there are people who punch people for looking the wrong way at someone, never mind interrogating them and questioning their parenting skills - are people like her just very good at spotting who not to insult? Do I need to develop more of a threatening exterior?
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To wonder how rude people get so far in their lives without being punched?
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