So back story, been with my Dh for 10 years, never really got past the polite conversation with the il's. They are perfectly nice people, I just find them incredibly dull and irritating. They tend to ignore me why I try to make conversation so I feel the feeling is mutual.
So when we visit I tend to do most of the 'behind the scenes stuff' putting kids down for naps, sorting rooms out etc so they can enjoy their ds and dgc.
My issue is that fil is a bit lurky, you'l b making tea an he'l be stood very close behind me, an this morning as I'm making the children's breakfast he walks in puts his arm around me an kisses my cheek.- not in a 'making a pass way ', just being nice. I hate unnecessary personal contact an tensed up the minute he did it. This isn't a new thing, I thing they are just being more annoying than usual so the thought of them touching me is even worse!
They always do hugs and kisses when meeting and leaving and it makes my skin crawl.
My question is, is it too late to casually say please don't touch me? Or aibu?
Apologies for poor grammar, I'm typing this while pretending to pack!
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To tell fil that I hate casual personal contact.
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Rabidu · 29/12/2016 10:51
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Rafflesway ·
29/12/2016 11:49
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