Last Christmas I went through a horrendous break up. My ex (whom I worked with) cheated on me and left me for another girl in our office. It was truly awful watching them all day. We had lived together but I had savings and my parents helped me to buy my own home, which I strongly believe kept me going.
I was never hugely settled in the city I bought in and once I got over the shock of break up realised I wanted to move back to my university city. So in November I got a new job paying much better, let my house and moved into a share in new city. I'm sharing to save money to top up my deposit as property is more here.
So current situation:
New city (moved at end of November)
Sharing and hate housemates for lots of reasons
New job
New city has much better long term prospects. But I miss my own home so much. I also met a great guy in other city but it didn't work out. I associated lots of happy times in my home with him and I'm not sure if this is skewing my thoughts.
I don't know what to do. Try to settle in new city or make plans to move back to old? Old city is small, few career prospects and I always planned to move to uni city. But suddenly it seems overwhelming.
I'm 27 btw; single and no kids. Aibu to be totally confused?
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To be having second thoughts about relocation
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Quarterlifecrisis27 · 28/12/2016 22:17
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