2nd year running that my sister hasn't bought my DC anything for Christmas. I have bought her children.
Last year the excuse was she had a new baby (was born on the 4th) and her work was messing her about with her maternity pay and there was a problem with her tax credits.
I had no problem with this...except instead of coming to me and saying she was broke, she avoided me for 3 months and left it to my mum to tell me. I didn't get a thank you for the gifts I gave her children either.
This year she's gone silent again. No messages of thank you, no contact to me and will probably avoid me again until birthday season.
Her excuse this year will be that her partner was out of a job for a week and she is saving up for her wedding next year. She already has several thousands saved. Something she has been very happy to tell me over the last few months.
I suspected she was going to do this again this year, so I halved the budget I was going to spend on her children.
Dh wants me to not buy anything next year, but I just can't do it..it's not her children's fault she is like this.
She has two children. A 5 year old girl and a just turned 1 boy.
I have a 3 year old girl and a 1 year old boy.
WWYD?
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Soubriquet · 27/12/2016 17:36
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