AIBU here? I think I probably am but it drives me mad....
We went to a wedding last weekend and MIL looked after our baby (9 months) for the afternoon. While we were away she did our ironing (mine and DH's stuff, none of baby's, and obviously massively kind!) which was nice to discover when we got home, but, it had all been packed away into our drawers and wardrobe as opposed to being left for us to take up. To my mind, my drawers... and all the things they may contain (ahem)..... are private. In fact, I consider our bedroom as a room to be private. Bearing in mind she wouldn't have known what goes in which drawers, everything would have been opened and I guess it feels a bit invasive. Totally get this wasn't a case of rummaging through our stuff or anything but, I dunno, it makes me feel uncomfortable and I'd never go into someone else's bedroom without permission, let alone start opening drawers and stuff? I felt a bit more 'urgh' about it as was utterly horrendous in terms of mess having gotten ready for the wedding in a bit of a hurry around baby-feeding so there was make-up, hair stuff, and clothes/underwear everywhere so I guess I'm also a bit embarrassed, but I didn't think anyone would be seeing it except me and DH.
I'm not sure if it's a familial thing as another of DH's family stayed a few weeks ago and I coincidentally saw them coming OUT of our bedroom asking if I had a hairdryer handy (no asking in advance).......So, is this not just a bit weird, or AIBU?
They're all totally lovely but it feels like a bit of a boundary issue (maybe mine, maybe theirs!) as to me privacy is quite important and our bedroom isn't for 'public' access. DH has no opinion either way, so out of curiosity, AIBU to find this unpleasant?
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Ibloodyhatethomasthetankengine · 26/12/2016 22:20
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